Reality over Fantasy

• Someone who feels like home
• Someone who can always be my first call
• Someone who makes me feel safe and protected
• Someone who knows how to make everything okay with a call or a hug
• Someone I never feel bad about wanting or needing for any reason
• Someone who when cuddled up together
  *nothing else matters
  *there is a complete sense of safety
  *all that has gone bad can be forgotten
• Someone that respects when I don’t want to talk about something, but is also all ears when I do.
• Someone who can be the source of a smile when I really need a happy distraction.
• Someone who knows that I can bold my own in hearted arguments, but doesn’t assume I like to have them
• Someone who is honest, and has no desire to lie to me
• Someone who is kind and compassionate
• Someone who wont cheat, and if they did they would be honest about it
• Someone who can be supportive of individuals goals, even when they add short term barriers to the relationship
• Someone who is not regularly passive-aggressive with me
• Someone who understand the weight of a promise and thus keeps all those they can
• Someone who loves me with only one condition, I love them as well.
• Someone who makes me feel like a priority
• Someone who understands that not everything will always be easy and we may have hard times where we have to work for our relationship
• Someone who sees all of my little imperfections and loves me for them not despite them
• Someone who knows love is not something that can be expressed simply through purchasable
• Someone who does not seek to always keep score (wrongs, sacrifices made, etc)
• Someone who does not have a defeatist attitude, especially when it is about our relationship
• Someone who can hold their own in intellectual conversation, or at least listen gracefully and learn something
• Someone who is passionate, whatever the topic